I light this candle in memory of you Harlen. We may have been born as cousins, but we fought like we were brother and sister. I will never forget the memories that we have made over the years whether they may have been good or bad. You will always be in my heart. I give thanks in knowing that you knew you were a big pain to me growing up, but I wouldn't change any of it for the world. Harlen, you wanted me to be able to stand up for myself and not let others walk all over me. I will greatly miss your attitudes good or bad, your smile when you thought something was funny, I will even miss when you would say your favorite word (F...) and Grandma would get on to you and ask cant you use a different word. You will forever be in my heart right next to Michael and Grandpa!!!!!! If I want to see you again all I have to do is look deep inside and see your face as well as the home videos of us as kids. Well I bid you a fair ado and hope that your next adventure is bigger and better and will see you when the time has come.... Also don't worry about your Mom we will help her get through this, as I know that you are watching over her as well as the rest of the family.
